Weekend Style Files: Flats for Fall

I am a  huge fan of flats. I wear them all the time. I rarely wear heels unless I have to! Flats are comfortable and look chic for everyday wear. I love them paired with skinny jeans or leggings. They really go with anything.  This Fall you better believe I will be living in flats with a new baby! 

My dream flats are the Vince Nina D'Orsays, but they are so expensive, maybe if they go on sale I can snag them.  I think most people own the TB Reva's but if you don't they are a great pair of flats.  I own them in several colors but the black and tan are my favorites.   I heard her Caroline flats are even more comfortable so I added them to the list too. They come in such fabulous rich colors for Fall, loving the dark green and red.

 I love the flats in the picture above picture, they are similar to the Dolce Vita Gav Flats and they are on sale right now!  Rebecca Minkoff makes such great flats, in such fun patterns yet still neutral enough to go with everything. 

Here are my favorite flats for Fall, scroll thru to see them all.  Any others I should add to my list?

Pregnancy It Ain't for the Weary

Before I start my bitching let me say I am so thankful to be pregnant,  a day doesn't go by that I don't thank God for this sweet baby girl growing inside of me.  Pregnancy is such a blessing and my heart goes out to any of you that are still struggling to get pregnant, I know what that feels like.  It is amazing what our bodies do to accommodate the babies growing inside of us.  It is a powerful feeling to know that you have housed and grown a baby for 9 months (really 10 but who is counting but us preggos).

I don't think Matt will ever fully understand the extent of how taxing being pregnant is on my body.  Half of the time he looks at my stomach in fear and I know he is thinking is that really going to get bigger?   Pregnancy is hard as shit and I don't believe anyone that says otherwise.  You do have a short time period in the second trimester when you feel good and like yourself but that quickly fades once you reach the third trimester. 

This pregnancy has most definitely been harder on my body, as I am sure any subsequent pregnancy is.  I was very nauseous the whole first trimester.  Now, I am beyond uncomfortable.  Every time I sneeze I wet my pants.  My boobs officially touch my stomach. The backs of my legs are covered in so many varicose veins it looks like someone beat me.  Not only are they disgusting to look at they are painful if I am on my feet for too long.

Case and point; I actually just got fitted for support hose.  They are that bad.   Any tips for bad veins?  Will they go away after?  I had zero veins with Sterling so this all new to me.

I pee about 5-6 times every night.  Poor Matt may never get a full night sleep because he has to hear me get up to pee every hour.  I think the peeing is getting us used to being up all night with a newborn because I have not had a good nights sleep in ages.  I get out of breath walking up 3 stairs, heck I am out breath just getting Sterling out of the car sometimes.   I feel so much pressure in my back and groin it feels like this baby is going to pop out.   I am beyond exhausted, having a busy 3 year old makes pregnancy that much harder. I am in bed most nights by 8.  I have no social life, I am a hermit when I am pregnant.  I would rather lie in bed than go out to dinner.

Oh and the drinking.  I miss martinis and wine like crazy.  I can not wait to have a vodka drink.  I also miss my skinny jeans.  I have about 10 outfits that still fit me right and I am just rotating between them.  I refuse to buy new clothes til after I lose the baby weight!

I am starting to get major anxiety about delivering this baby which is funny because it is my second time you would think I would be more chill.  But I think I am more scared this time because I know exactly what to expect,  last time I was in the dark.   Hospitals give me anxiety.  I just pray everything goes smoothly.

 All of these pains and fears are trivial and I know they are totally worth it to birth a healthy baby but I just want to say pregnancy is hard.  I think the last month or two is the hardest because you are so uncomfortable.  I admire any and everyone of you women who have gone thru this and especially ones who have carried multiples.  I think the men in our lives will never fully understand the extent of pregnancy and how much our bodies change over 9 months.  Pregnancy ain't easy, but once you hold that sweet baby in your arms for the first time you forget everything you went through.   You just cherish that sweet child that you welcomed into the world and realize what a miracle pregnancy and childbirth is.

Ok, ranting is done.  Go enjoy your Fridays.  I will be not drinking and in bed by 8:)

Blouses: An Everyday Staple

My daily uniform consists of a blouse and either cut-off jean shorts or skinny jeans. I love how feminine blouses are and how easy they are to toss on yet you look really pulled together. Blouses have served me well this pregnancy,  most of my blouses still fit because I wore them loose and flowy before. If you need some inspiration check out these lovely ladies rocking blouses.

Oh how I love a blouse.  It is the perfect everyday staple.  I rounded up a few of my favorites of all different price ranges.  Whats your favorite blouse?

Key Lime and Coconut White Chocolate Pound Cake

This pregnancy I have been obsessed with all key lime desserts. I loved the mini cheesecakes so much I decided to try my hand at a key lime cake. I made this for my mom's birthday while we were on vacation, and it was a huge hit with everyone.  It was also easy to make because it uses a box pound cake mix- minimal measuring is always good!  I love the addition of white chocolate in the cake mix and the coconut in the icing, they both give the cake extra flavor and pair perfectly with the lime juice!  I made this cake in the bundt cake pan and it cooked perfectly it was just a touch thin, next time I may make the cake in the bread pans instead.   The loaf of bread would make a great hostess gift, but the cake is great as well for a birthday party.
Enjoy and trust me you won't be able to stop at just one slice.  I was eating the leftover icing by the spoonful with my second slice of cake.

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Pound Cake:

1 – 16 oz. box Betty Crocker Pound Cake Mix

2/3 c. water

¼ c. butter, softened

2 eggs

2 tsp. Key lime juice

1 tsp. Key lime zest

1 – 3.5 oz. White Chocolate Bar finely chopped

Glaze:

1 c. powdered sugar

1 tsp. Key lime juice

1-2 tbs. milk

¼ c. shredded coconut

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  Grease and flour 4 miniature loaf pans or bundt cake pan and set aside.

In a large mixing bowl, combine cake mix, water, butter, eggs, Key lime juice, and lime zest.  Beat on medium speed until light and fluffy and the lumps are all gone.  Stir in white chocolate pieces.  Pour evenly into prepared pans.

Bake 28-30 minutes in mini loaf pans or bundt cake pan.  Remove from oven cool 10 minutes in pan.  Remove cakes from pan and cool completely on rack.

In a small bowl, combine powdered sugar, Key lime juice, and milk.  Whisk until smooth.  Drizzle evenly over cooled cakes.  Sprinkle with shredded coconut, and serve.

*we just mixed the coconut in with the icing and drizzled over the cake**

Obsessions

{Parker Bluebell Blouse} 

This blouse is so dreamy.  I love the Big Bang patterned one.  It looks so good with the skinny black jeans.

{Club Monaco Tasha Leggings}

I am desperate for a pair of faux leather leggings.  Love that these have a wider waist band for a more flattering fit. 

{Joie Huntley Tote}

I have not bought a new purse in a long time.  It has been almost three years since I bought my last purse.  I have been itching for a new one lately and this is a forerunner.  Love the size, shape and both colors.

{House of Harlow Fingerprick Necklace}

I am a huge fan of House of Harlow jewelry, I wear my Sunburst necklace all the time.  I am thinking this needs to be my new Fall necklace.  Love the bold black design.

 {Club Monaco Haley Dress}

My favorite dress is back in a new color combo.  I can't say enough great things about this dress.  I wear mine all the time pregnant and not (see below).  Love the new black/white combo.  I suggest ordering this now if you want it.  Last time it sold out fast!  Runs true to size, I have a size 4.

{BR Stripe Cardigan}

This the perfect cardigan for Fall.  Love the neutral colors,  it would go with everything. BR has been surprising me this Fall they have some cute stuff.

{T-Bags Faux Leather Dress}
So this dress looks like it would be more like a shirt on me, but I would totally pair it with leggings or skinny jeans for a killer outfit.  Any of you shorter gals could prob pull this off as a dress.    I am all about the faux leather look for Fall.

{Nate Berkus Woven Cotton Round Storage Bin}
I am loving Nate Berkus's new fall line.  This is one of my favorites.  I ordered one for Sterling's room to use as storage on his bookcase.  Hope it is as cute in person as it is online!

{BaubleBar Twain Travel Cases}
I am always looking for ways to organize and store my jewelry when I travel and these cases are just perfect.  I just can't decide what color I love best black, cobalt, teal, or red!  They are such a great price at $26 they would make great stocking stuffers for Christmas, bridesmaid gifts, or just a gift for anyone special!

Scenes From Our Weekend

Why do the weekends fly by so fast? I am starting to get a little weirded out that I only have 9 weekends or less before Baby girl makes her debut. I have alot left to do in the nursery not to mention cleaning out closets etc. A three bedroom house is gonna be a tight squeeze for 4 of us, but honestly it has been good to make me get rid of things we don't need. We have way too much stuff. 

Friday Night Matt and I celebrated our 6 year anniversary.  We went to dinner at the Mustard Seed one of our favorite restaurants.  It is pretty much our tradition to eat there on our anniversary.  The past three out of 4 years we have eaten there.  Once we tried to get all fancy and eat at Oak, well $200 later and we were both disappointed with our meals.  So now we have decided to stick with what works for us and has special meaning.

Wore my Zara Neoprene Dress, which is sadly about too small this pregnancy.  Will def rock it post baby though such a great dress.

 I had a trout salad with fresh mozzarella, cucumbers, and heirloom tomatoes that was amazing.  Matt had the Filet with truffled potatoes and green beans.  Both of our meals were excellent.

Normally we don't exchange gifts but this year Matt surprised me with two gorgeous necklaces from JCrew (thank you Melissa for helping him out).

Saturday morning Matt and his dad left bright and early to go flounder fishing so it was just me and Sterling.  We decided to hit up Krispy Kreme.  I have not been there once since I have been pregnant and decided it was time for this preggo to eat some hot and now doughnuts.  And yes Sterling and I finished this whole box.

We walked to the beach after that, had to burn off at least doughnut with my two mile stroll.  S loves the beach so much, we found a sharks tooth and he collected rocks.  Yep my son likes to collect rocks not shells from the beach go figure.

Had to get one shadow bump shot.  

Wore these shoes pretty much all weekend.  I scored them on major sale at Shoes on King, they are no longer available there but found them online HERE for almost 50% off.  Elizabeth and James makes such great shoes and they are comfortable!

Lastly started trying out arrangements in the nursery.  Put the rug down and now just need to figure out furniture arrangement!  Rocking chair is getting picked up next week to be recovered!

xoxo

Weekend Style Files: Fall Budget Finds Part 2

I had so much fun finding affordable Fall Fashions a few weeks ago, I decided to do a part two post. There are some seriously great options out there that won't break the bank.  Here is my second round-up, scroll thru to see all my picks!  I am loving loose sweaters paired with skinny leggings for Fall.  Plus there are so many great cozy cardigans out right now to pair with a tee shirt and jeans or leggings for a chic and comfy look.

Happy Saturday!